Monday, August 27, 2007

Toe Puppets

The other day I decided that in the unlikely event that Makenna decides to come before my scheduled c-section I should have a few basic things ready for her. So, I pulled out the infant car seat to give it a good wash. The next thing I know, Parker is lounging in it, perhaps remembering that this used to be his not to long ago. It was nuts how huge he looked in it when it used to look so big compared to him! He really has grown up.








We went to a birthday party for my step-sister's husband last Sunday and Parker had a great time. He even got some neat little finger puppets. While he thought it was cool to put them on your fingers, it wasn't long before he figured out that they fit on your toes too! That, of course, was much more fun!





Sunday, August 19, 2007

Parker loves dirt!

We went out last night to see the progress they've made on our house so far. They are working fast and our house is now competely sheet rocked and most of the exterior is up! It has been fun to see it come together and we can only hope that they continue at the same pace (unlikely, but we can think positive, right!) So, as we were walking out, we ran into a new neighbor of ours and we had a little chat with him. While we were talking, Parker decided that he was going to check out the dirt. Now usually he's a little weary of getting his feet dirty, but not last night. He was running around in it and throwing it. He was in a little boys heaven! By the time we left, he was covered in dirt and happy as could be! Here are some pictures I took (some of them, he is actually throwing dirt at me!) Hmmm, maybe we need a sandbox for this kid?















PS-I didn't get any of our house. I don't know what I was thinking?!

Friday, August 10, 2007

Parker turned 2!

Well, we have been busy here in Barnes' household latley! Last weekend I was off to San Fransisco with my aunts, cousin, sister, and grandma for their annual girl's weekend. I had a great time with everyone and even did a little walking around town. I'm so glad I got to go and see just how fun and silly my aunts can be when they all get together! I'm already looking forward to next year's trip! Parker and Andrew had some good bonding time and both seemed like they really enjoyed it being just the two of them. Here is a pic of a few of us on the trip. I think they all look so beautiful in it!






I got back just a few days before Parker's 2nd birthday! It's hard to image that he's already 2 years old. It's so fun to watch him grow up, but hard to see that he's not my little baby anymore. The party was wonderful! We had so many family members come to wish him a happy birthday! I don't think that we could ask for a more loving and supportive extended family! He got A LOT of gifts! Parker pretty much just wanted to play with everything he opened right after he opened it and so we had to coax him to open each present. As you can see from the pictures, we had a Thomas the Tank Engine theme (one of his favorite characters). I think his favorite thing that night was just running around with his cousins! We couldn't even get him to slow down for some of his cake and ice cream! I'm so grateful to have a healthy, happy, smart, cute as can be little boy! I'm so lucky to be his mom and everyday with him brings new joys! Looking back at all we went through to have him and what he's meant to our family, he really is a miracle! Happy Birthday my little man!













Tuesday, July 31, 2007

September 13th is the BIG day!

We have a date set for Makenna's birth! So, let the countdown begin! I have to admit that while I'm very excited to meet my little girl, I'm a little nervous about being a mother of two. I keep thinking that I am much too young and inexperienced for this, but I guess that's how we all start out. These next few months are going to be big ones for our family! Andrew is back in UT for good this time! It's great to all be together! We also have our house under contract again. We are being cautiously optimistic this time around. So, keep your fingers crossed that this deal goes through. Our new house has a scheduled completion date of around Sept. 19th, which is exciting. Parker is less than 2 weeks away from turing 2! Yesterday on the way home from my dad and Kathy's house, he was in his carseat chatting away to himself and he counted from 6 to 10 all on this own! What a smart cookie! I can't wait until he sees his Thomas the tank engine birthday cake! I think he will go nuts! Here are a few funny pictures that we took a recently.








Sunday, July 15, 2007

Sorry I'm a slacker!

It's been a crazy month, but here I am again. We had a great time in Tahoe and I even took part in a bike ride despite being seven months pregnant. Parker reallly enjoyed being outdoors so much and being the center of attention most of the time. Andrew has been in town these past couple of weeks and it has been heaven! I can't wait until that is the permanent arrangement again. Things are looking up on the house selling front too. We've had a lot of interest in the last few weeks and I think we should be able to get it sold by the end of the month. Now we just have to hope that our new house will be finished on time (it's supposed to be finished the 1st of Sept). Here are some pics of our trip while we were on the beach in Tahoe waiting for the fireworks to start.










And here is are some pics of our trip to visit Andrew in California. We got to go out to LA to see Spencer and David one weekend. They have a pretty neat lion sculpture in their condo that Parker was fascinated with.






Tuesday, June 12, 2007

BE SUN SAFE!

I just sent this out to my friends and family with kids but I wanted to post it on my blog for all of you that may not have kids right now, but will in the future.
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Don't put too much faith in sunscreen for kids

LAURAN NEERGAARD - The Associated Press
WASHINGTON -- Shade your kids. Strong new evidence suggests overall sun exposure in childhood, not just burns, is a big key to who later develops deadly skin cancer.

The news comes as the government is finishing long-awaited rules to improve sunscreens.

The Food and Drug Administration wants sunscreens to be rated not just for how well they block the ultraviolet-B rays that cause sunburn -- today's SPF rankings -- but for how well they protect against deeper-penetrating ultraviolet-A rays that are linked to cancer and wrinkles.

The proposed rules are undergoing a final review and should be issued in weeks, FDA policy director Jeff Shuren told The Associated Press. Still, sunscreen bottles won't look different any time soon: The proposal will be followed by a public comment period before going into effect.

New research into how the sun and genetics interact points to a possibly more important step consumers can take now to shield their children, and themselves: Check the weather forecast for the day's "UV index" in your town, to learn when to stay indoors or in the shade.

Why? Where you live, not the every-so-often beach vacation, determines most of your UV exposure -- that lunchtime stroll, children's school recess or ball practice. UVA can even penetrate window glass. UV levels vary from state to state, even day to day, because of things like altitude, cloud cover and ozone.

"Sunscreen is imperfect," warns Dr. Nancy Thomas, a dermatologist at the University of North Carolina who led the UV research. "Schedule activities when UV irradiation is not quite so high."

Melanoma is the most lethal skin cancer. It will strike almost 60,000 Americans this year, and kill some 8,100. Cases have been on the rise for three decades, and while it usually strikes in the 40s or 50s, doctors are seeing ever-younger cases, occasionally even in children.

Scientists are studying the interaction of genes and UV exposure in melanoma patients in the U.S. and Australia -- and initial results suggest staying in the shade in early life is even more important than previously realized.

Thomas analyzed tumor genes from 214 melanoma patients now living in North Carolina. Colleagues at the National Center for Atmospheric Research in Boulder, Colo., used satellite data to track average UV radiation -- encompassing both UVA and UVB rays -- in the different towns and states where those patients had lived at birth, age 10, age 20 and so on.

The result: Patients with the most common known melanoma mutations, called BRAF mutations, also had the highest UV exposure by age 20. Interestingly, they also had the most moles, another important melanoma risk factor.

What does that mean? It's not clear yet, but young, rapidly growing skin may be particularly vulnerable to damaging UV rays, especially as moles are developing, Thomas says.

Or maybe early childhood sun exposure spurs moles to develop in the first place.

While sun exposure for young adults played some role, too, the association with BRAF disappeared at age 30.

But that isn't a license for adults to sunbathe: Another melanoma subtype, characterized by mutations in a gene called NRAS, is strongly linked to UV exposure by age 50, the study found.

Here's the problem: Until recently, sunscreens have filtered out mostly UVB rays that cause sunburns, not UVA rays, meaning people who depended only on sunscreen to prevent skin cancer may have gotten a false sense of security.

Today, many sunscreens promise "broad-spectrum" protection against UVA rays, too. But the government doesn't yet have testing requirements in place to prove that UVA protection.

The term broad-spectrum "means nothing. Anybody can make that claim," says a frustrated Dr. Darrell Rigel of New York University, a past president of the American Academy of Dermatology, which has long pushed to change that.

The soon-to-come FDA proposal will keep the SPF, or "sun protection factor," ratings on sunscreen bottles that refer only to UVB protection -- but add a UVA rating, too, says Shuren.

Until then, dermatologist Rigel has some advice:

Use enough sunscreen. An adult needs the equivalent of a full shot glass, and a young child a good tablespoon-full. Most people put on too thin a coat to get good UVB coverage, much less whatever UVA protection a brand might offer.

While official recommendations say wear at least an SPF-15 sunscreen daily, a super-high SPF will counter some of the thin-coat problem.

Products with the ingredient Helioplex -- a more sun-stable mix of the sunscreen ingredients avobenzone and oxybenzone -- seem to provide longer-lasting UVA protection, although they can be more expensive. Another certified anti-UVA ingredient, Mexoryl, currently is sold only in sunscreen-containing moisturizer in the U.S.; it has long been sold in Europe.

Apply sunscreen a half-hour before going outside. It takes that long to start working.

And limit exposure during the peak UV hours of 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.

On the Net: Find UV index by Zip code: http://www.epa.gov/sunwise/uvindex.html
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I just found this article in the local newspaper and wanted all of you with kids to know about it. I'm pretty nuts about keeping Parker safe from the sun (just ask my dad or Andrew) but this article helped me feel better about it. After I lost my mom to melanoma I felt like I needed to educate myself better about how to keep myself and my family safe from the risk factors for melanoma. The overwhelming evidence that I've found suggests that skin damage before 18 will raise your risk of developing melanoma later in life. It's such a dangerous cancer and it's on the rise in a big way in the US right now. I hope that my experience with losing my mom far too young can help others to do what they can to decrease their risk factors for melanoma.

So, now I can get off my soap box... Not much going on here. Still trying to sell our house. The market has really slowed down this month so I'm hoping it picks up soon! Makenna is getting steadily stronger and bigger and now you can see my belly pop up and down as she kicks me. I love watching it! I'm looking forward to having Jamie come and stay with us and keep us company in the next few weeks. We are also getting excited for our trip to Lake Tahoe next month with Kathy's family (my dad's fiance). It should be a great time to get to know each other better. Blending families...hmmm. It's funny the things life throws at you that you never thought you'd have happen to you. So far, it's been a good experiece. I feel like I'm really growing and learning from it. Well, I'll post some new pictures soon! Rest assured that Parker is still as adorable as ever!

Friday, May 25, 2007

Potty training-HELP!!!

I decided today that I was going to potty train Parker. I've been kicking around the idea for a while and today I'm taking the plunge. My goal is to have him potty trained by the time that baby Makenna comes along in September so I'll only be changing one child's diapers. I realize that he is a little young, but I want to give it a shot. The thing is, I don't even know where to start! I bought a little soft top for the toilet and a little stool for him to climb up on and that's as far as I've gotten. I thought about getting one of those toddler toilets but the thought of cleaning them just grosses me out. So, I'm asking for suggestions from all you more experienced mothers out there. Is there some kind of potty training bible of sorts? Call, email, whatever you can, but I would really like some advice!
In other news...






Here is picture of Andrew and Parker "blasting off". Parker is really into Little Ensteins (a tv show). He watches them every morning and always loves it when they "blast off" in their rocket. He can also name all of the characters on Mickey Mouse Club House (mickey, minnie, donald duck, etc...) I'm not totally sure how I feel about that. He usually only watches those two shows during the day but I still feel a little guilty. I was one of those moms who said their kids weren't going to watch TV and it's funny how fast that went out the window! A few minutes to empty the dishwasher or pay some bills is nice. I guess at least it's educational. (: